Women always ask their girlfriends, “How do I know if he
loves me?” Ladies, it’s really not that
difficult to know. Contrary to popular belief,
men are not as complex as we think they are.
Men are pretty simple people. Most
of them are straight forward and easy to please if they love the woman they are
with. Many men don’t lie about their
feelings, we just hear what we want to hear and see what we want to see.
Men are not very verbose when it comes to love. Their actions speak a heck of a lot louder
than their words. If you want to know
if a man’s love is true, look at what he does.
Talk is cheap!
Here are 20 tell tell signs that he really loves you:
1. He
sometimes calls you for no other reason than to hear your voice.
2. When
something extraordinary happens to him, you are the first one he calls.
3. He
puts you before everyone in his life (besides his children).
4. Making
time is never an issue.
5. He
is thoughtful and considerate.
6. He
loves being with you even if sex is not possible.
7. He
respects you and your family.
8. He
is supportive of your dreams and goals.
9. He
tells you he loves you.
10. You not
only his wife/girlfriend, you are his best friend.
11. He
is generous.
12. He
is completely faithful. He does not
engage in any sexual activity (touching, kissing, sex-texting, sex talk, sex,
oral sex, etc.) or emotional activity (secret friendships, secret dinners, etc.)
with any woman or man besides you.
13. He
will not let pride get in the way of your relationship.
14. He still
sees your beauty as you age.
15. He accepts you just the way you are, flaws and all.
16. He
will never abuse you physically, mentally, verbally, or financially.
17. You
can trust him around women.
18. If
you have children from a previous relationship, he loves them like they are his
own.
19. He
cares about your physical, emotional, and spiritual wellbeing.
20. He
isn’t a selfish lover.
Of course all men are different and people show their love in different ways but the aforementioned 20 signs are pretty much universal for men and women. Real
love is usually displayed in the most simplistic and sincerest forms. Candy and flowers are nice but mainly hackneyed
expressions. Love is seen and felt in
the little things that he does daily that lets you know that you are the one
for him.
So ladies, stop asking if he
loves you, his actions are answering you loud and clear. Observe and enlighten yourself.
I agree with all of these and in fact describes how I am and feel about you. I love you forever and after.
ReplyDeleteYou taught me what love really is. I love you too.
DeleteIt's very ok and very practical. Great work. I have a few reservation though.
ReplyDeleteFor the most part, life is practical and simple. We are the ones who make it hard.
DeleteI've actually never been in love before. I have no problem with doing some of those things for women now. The problem that has always had is women being appreciated of the things that I do for her out of care. If I am to love a woman I will love my wife with a passion. I do not give my love out so carelessly
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